So, we find ourselves in a new year. There is the hope that this one will be better than the non-year that was 2020. We found ourselves with too much death, too much sickness, an abundance of loneliness, and so much negativity. We still find ourselves in these situations. The virus is very real, the deaths and sickness bring unbearable sadness, and our hearts ache for those who have felt the loss of friends and loved ones.
Yet in this time, we managed to find ourselves, recognise ourselves in others, find ways to combat that loneliness, and find our kindness. Many have found it in themselves to follow the many rules that they would otherwise fight against, appreciating that this strange world we find ourselves in is inhabited by other human beings who are more vulnerable than we are, who need our help in a world that has left them locked up from the rest of the world.
On a personal level, my father is one of those people due to both his age and falling within the criteria required to categorise him as a vulnerable individual. Last year was a struggle as he has been limited on being able to mix with his children and grandchildren. He had to adjust to having blood tests moved as G.P. surgeries no longer conduct his blood tests. My mother was unable to attend hospital appointments with him, as there was the risk of contamination. All of these points remain as we begin 2021.
Obviously, the measures that have been put into place are there for a reason. That is why our family make that extra effort to adhere to the rules. It’s just not worth the risk.
With our thoughts with so many others, it’s no surprise that it is difficult to make resolutions for the year ahead. Whilst I have an idea of the things I would like to achieve, I have no timescale allocated to many of them. Yes, I know the second ‘Raising Hell’ book needs to be completed, and how long I would like to allocate it. Yes, I have two other books planned, although they are penned in as ‘2021’ and that’s as far as it goes. Yes, I need to continue my Masters later this year. However, when it comes to the many other things I want to get done, I am going to play it by ear. For, if last year taught me anything, it’s that time is precious (especially time with our families). And, if this year is teaching me anything, it’s that life is too short to beat yourself up over things that are secondary to the things that really matter.
A Happy and Safe New Year to you all…
T.F. Webb 